Together with their families

Grace & James

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Desert Outdoor Center at Lake Pleasant

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In thirty-four days

As told by Grace

Our story

  1. How we met

    Grace's first glimpse of James was a bit of a celebrity moment: he was featured on their high school's morning announcements for finishing flight school through AFJROTC. She was impressed, but never thought she'd meet this top-notch guy. Then she joined AFJROTC herself, and he was in her class. Not only that, he was her… COMMANDER?! Too far above her to even pursue, she decided.

    But fate had other plans. Grace tried out for Air Rifle, and James was the captain. They'd chit-chat in the school parking lot for so long after practice that she almost missed dinner a few times. When he offered introductory flights to the class, Grace was very interested in him… I mean, the flight. Afterward they grabbed a meal that lasted so long she almost missed her midnight curfew. From then on they kept hanging out, and eventually both fell in love!

  2. Falling into place

    James headed to Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University in Prescott while Grace finished her (very lame) last year of high school, planning to follow him up there. Destiny had a sense of humor: Grace ended up at a different university, which turned out to be the best one in the state (James would disagree, but he's definitely wrong).

    Through long distance and learning to manage adult life, they grew separately but together, and the distance and struggles only made their love stronger. Now they're ready to join forces, even if the world isn't ready for this much power yet.

  3. The promise

    On a beautiful February day, James took Grace to Lake Havasu, a place she'd wanted to visit for years. They spent the day exploring the lake on their paddle board, then he told her to get dressed up for a walk on the bridge, with food after, which Grace could never say no to.

    He planned everything perfectly, down to a secret camera crew. There on the bridge he dropped to one knee and asked her to join forces with him forever. Grace said, “absolutely!!!” She'd been waiting for him to ask for a while.

James on one knee proposing to Grace on a stone-balustrade bridge over the water at dusk
Grace and James embracing and kissing on the bridge right after she said yes
Grace and James laughing together on the bridge as a white car passes in the foreground

The perspective…

From the man!

As told by James

I couldn't be more lucky in my life. Finding Gracelynn, befriending her, and feeling us grow closer every day has been the most rewarding experience of my entire life. And wow… it all came from such humble beginnings.

It wasn't even supposed to happen! We went to the same high school and never once crossed paths there. It took a training day for our school district's JROTC, at a completely different school, for us to really meet.

It was my last semester of high school, and my sister was starting her first year in the program. She noticed something strange: a girl looking at ME, then at HER, then at ME, then HER, and not with the most welcoming face. I filed it away and didn't investigate further. I did see the girl in question, and, to be frank, she was pretty!

And then… she joined air rifle. I was in air rifle! Suddenly I was helping her hold her position, competing with (and against) her, and most importantly, talking with her, for hours after practice. She'd have to leave to make dinner with her family, and I'd be in her way!

We couldn't be separated. We've texted or talked every night for the past five years, since those practices, since our meetups, since the key “date” (a Nerf assassination) that began a lifelong “feud” between us. These days with this woman have been the best of my life.

I am so proud and thankful to have this opportunity to marry the love of my life and continue this adventure in one another's arms.

Our story’s next chapter needs you in it.

The wedding

When

Saturday, December 19, 2026

Guests arrive
2:30 PM
Ceremony
3:00 PM

Where

Desert Outdoor Center at Lake Pleasant

41402 N 87th Ave
Morristown, AZ 85383

Join us here on December 19 as we say I do.

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